Nafiu Bala Rabiu, Managing Director, Balnara Universal Ltd and Lovely Mum

The mother-son relationship is beautiful, and it enhances as the child grows. The son can never imagine his life without his mother, while the mother’s affection and care for her son are eternal. However, with time, this relationship could experience certain changes. It doesn’t mean that the son has stopped loving his mother, but the priorities may take a shift. Hence, they must hold on to each other come what may. Keep reading this post as we explain why it is important to maintain this relationship forever and how you can do so.

Why Is A Mother-Son Relationship Important?

Mothers have a significant impact on their sons to the extent that the way they behave in their later years is attributed to their relationship with their mother. No other person understands a child better than a mother. Right from the time he is born till his adult years, a boy nurtures a deep-rooted bond with his mom. And this relationship is imperative for the overall development and emotional health of the child. Let’s see how a mother influences her son:

Emotionally intelligent: Boys who share a healthy relationship with their mothers from their early childhood are emotionally strong and are believed to have less behavioral problems in their lives. The strong bond between the mother and son makes him feel secure and confident. Studies indicate that boys who do not have a healthy bond with their moms in early childhood could be hostile and aggressive in their later years, or insecure in relationships and establishing goals, among others.

Emotionally strong and independent: A boy, who is loved and cared for by his mom, turns into a confident man. 

Unconditional love and acceptance of the mother reassures the son that he is lovable and capable of being a good friend and lover.

Good at academics: A mother who takes a keen interest in her son’s education helps him be good in his academics. Besides imparting education, she also helps him become emotionally adequate which is an absolute necessity for healthy living.

Have control over their behavior: Emotional intelligence imparted by the mother helps the son develop the ability to articulate his thoughts and balance his emotions. Thereby, he develops self-control in the classroom and social settings.

Respects women: A close relationship with the mother will help a boy appreciate her role in his life and her contribution to the family. He will learn to respect women in general because he is less likely to have superiority issues with his female counterparts.

Less risky behavior: Boys who are close to their mothers involved in less-risky behavior. A positive mother-son relationship reduces the peer pressure influence.

Likely to become successful: A mother/ father, who is involved in her son’s education and life, helps him become successful professionally and personally. She becomes his friend, guide, philosopher, and shows him the path to success.

Improves communication: A mother who is open in her communication becomes her son’s confidante. Her son can talk and share anything with her even in his teenage and adult years. This helps the sons communicate without any fear and inhibitions.