15 TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE LIFE 

15 TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE LIFE

Chief Henry Iyke Mmerigwo and beautiful wife Maryann

No marriage is perfect, but couples learn to figure out a few things and adjust with each other after years of being together. Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or married for fifteen years, Love, honesty, empathy, and care for each other go a long way in any relationship. If you’re looking for tips for successful marriage life, then you’re on the right platform. Here, we have gathered 15 best tips that can help you make your marriage the most memorable.
Here we go…….
Know that every couple is unique, and what worked for your great-grandparents or your parents, or your best friend and her husband may be the polar opposite of what works for you and your partner. But that doesn’t mean you can’t learn from them all! Each long-term marriage or relationship has its own secret recipe to success, and hearing others’ may inspire you to discover your own. Take a look at the tips for building a strong, long-lasting relationship.

1. Never underestimate the power of “I LOVE YOU.”
Believe it or not, these three magical words can make a whole lot of difference in your married life. After a few years of marriage, couples start to lead the life in auto mode. Things just happen; hardly have they got time for each other. And in the process, stress and tension occur between them, which leads to severe marital issues.
But these three words are so powerful. Saying them to your partner every day will make them realize that you’re there, that you love, and that you care!

2. “Can I help” can help a lot
Of course, we all can do things alone; however, helping each other makes things easier. Besides, it gives a sense of togetherness. Whenever you’re working on something, ask your partner, ‘Can I help?’ It seems obvious, but many people assume that their spouse will automatically know what they require. You must say it. Starting the conversation with those words will eliminate the feeling of resentment towards the other person.


3. Sharing is caring – Share household chores
Many couples struggle with how to divide household chores. The best is to figure out which daily tasks each of you despises and then swap them in such a situation. Both of you will appreciate it even more if your spouse does the chore that makes you miserable.

4. Focus on each other’s strengths rather than weaknesses
People who focus on other’s weaknesses tend to find only faults in others. The best way to appreciate your relationship is to focus on each other’s strengths. There is no point complaining about things that can’t be changed. However, with the right attitude, things can always be built and strengthened.
It’s not always easy to look past minor annoyances, and you may even despise your partner at times. However, in order to have a happy marriage, you must accept your partner’s strengths and weaknesses as well as be able to set realistic expectations. For example, if you’re good with budgeting, make it your responsibility to create the budget. Instead, if your partner’s strength is cooking, let them manage meal planning. Isn’t it easy? Using each other’s strengths on a daily basis leads to higher levels of happiness.


5. Embrace small little things
Those who believe that life is a sum total of big things are mistaken! The truth is – this life is a sum total of small little things. Anything, from having dinner together to saying bye to your husband while he leaves for work with a kiss, is HAPPINESS. When you start embracing those small moments, happiness in a relationship will start to flow.

6. Let trivial be trivial
Some people tend to create a mess of trivial matters, which is a huge problem in any relationship. Remember that no matter what, it can be bigger than your happy married life and strong bond. Life doesn’t come with a guarantee; always remember that. You never know when your partner may never return home. This also puts a lot of minor annoyances into context. If you don’t like something about your partner, just remind yourself that this is how it is; at least he is with you!


7. Don’t let others guide you on what is wrong in your relationship
You may be very close to your mom, but that doesn’t mean that she should interfere in every matter of your life. Remember that most husbands do not like outside interference at all. Sometimes we get so influenced by others that we forget to use our own brain. The best way to avoid such a situation is to avoid discussing your family matters in front of others.

8. Nurture your bond
The most important aspects of any successful married life are Love, care, gratitude, and compassion. These are the things that help every man or woman drive their partner insane. Learn to have fun together, laugh, have sex; if you don’t cultivate that, remember, you’re done. Physical intimacy is crucial for a strong and long-lasting relationship. Those who do not understand this end up having a miserable married life, which is not worth it!

9. Dependency is a curse – Nurture your interests and desires
Have your interests and desires. Marriage or being in a relationship doesn’t mean having NO life of your own. Your individuality should not be compromised at all, neither should you suffocate another person for the same. You should have your own life, your interests, and your desires. And you should do things that interest you; it will help you have your perspective.

10. “Complement” rather than “completing” each other
If you rely on your spouse to fulfill you, it can lead to an overly dependent relationship in which neither of you grows as an individual. Couples in healthy relationships should “complement” rather than “complete” each other. Two people should be confident, mature, and complete in themselves while remaining open to their partners. Instead of waiting for your spouse to fill the void, embrace yourself, know your interests—take a class you’re interested in, make plans with friends, go out with them—instead of waiting for your spouse to fill the gap.

Chief Henry Iyke Mmerigwo and beautiful wife Maryann


11. Do things that attract your partner
Attraction should not go away from the relationship; if it’s gone, then you’re done! No matter how long you have been married to each other, attraction towards each other is essential. Indulge in things that attract your partner. For instance, a surprise candlelight dinner when he got promoted, or a lovely romantic evening in the backyard, or anything that your partner may like after a hectic day at work will do. Sometimes you can even leave your kids with your sister so that the two of you can enjoy some cozy moments. There are so many ways you can spark romance and set sail in the right direction.

12. Keep your professional and personal life separate
Joining personal and professional life doesn’t help you fetch good results at all. In fact, it ruins everything. There is no doubt that your work is essential and your work for your family. But the truth remains that family gets affected when your work and life get entangled. So the best is to keep the two separate. Even if you’re working from home, set your work hours and religiously stick to them. Once you’re done with your work, then it should be your family time only. This will help you lead your life in an orderly fashion without creating any mess in your life. And you would be able to spend quality time with family that goes a long way.

13. Take time to appreciate each other
Appreciating each other is the greatest trick to have a successful married life. We all need to feel valued and validated for the things we do well. It’s easy to take someone for granted when you’re with them all the time; however, expressing your gratitude verbally every day goes a long way. Don’t miss to praise something thoughtful they’ve done or tell them something you admire about them. Valuing each other in a relationship can make a huge lot of difference.

14. Nothing remains the same – Accept the change
We all know the rule of nature – “Nothing remains the same.” And this applies to your relationship as well. Things change with time, and you have to learn to embrace the change. Everything changes, every person changes, we cannot expect the person to behave in the same manner as he/she used to behave ten years ago. Instead, we should learn to accept those changes.
Our needs change all the time, people grow, and relationships evolve. What we require today may not be what we require in a few years. It is critical for a balanced married life to learn to bend, flex, and pivot with each other. In a successful marriage, partners should support each other to grow to be the best people they can be, which includes maturing as individuals and as a team.

15. Life is a celebration – Celebrate each moment
How you take your life can make a huge difference in the overall experience as an individual and as a couple. Being married to your partner is not just enough for a successful married life. In fact, celebrating each moment, good and bad, with your partner and standby each other is the crux to a happy married life. It’s essential to be there for your partner during difficult times, but it’s also important to acknowledge the good times. Live. Laugh. Love. And CELEBRATE LIFE WITH EACH OTHER!! DON’T TAKE THINGS TOO SERIOUSLY! EACH MOMENT IS A BLESSING; JUST LEAD THAT WAY!!
Wrapping it up….
So these are the 15 tips for successful marriage life. Follow these tips, and you’re good to have a great married life ahead. And yes, don’t take things too seriously!! Focus on what is essential to make your married life a successful and memorable one rather than focusing on things that don’t matter.

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